I'm Newly Engaged: 36 Cool Anti-Traditional Wedding Finds I'm Losing It Over

By Kevin Harson7 June 2025

I just got engaged! I've been waiting for this moment a long time—and after more than eight years with my high school sweetheart, he popped the question on a recent trip to Tokyo, Japan. While I'm over the moon to finally be engaged, I have to admit I'm slightly more excited for all of the bridal fashion items I know I'll be stockpiling over the next few months.

As the first Gen Z editor getting married on Who What Wear's team, I feel like I have a slight responsibility to find all of the weird, quirky, anti-traditional bridal finds. It's not a phase, Mom. Unique wedding and bridal trends are rising thanks to the sub-27 cohort. Statement sequins, feather accessories, delicate embroidery, and eye-catching hats are some of the wedding items you'll find on this list—each of them ones I wish I could say "I do" to. From ivory Chopova Lowena carabiner minidresses to whimsical ceremony looks from brands like Danielle Frankel and Alexandra Grecco, shop the best 36 cool bridal fashion items. Weddings are expensive—might as well look good while you're doing it!

The Own Studio

Asymmetric Chiffon Cape

I'm loving the look of a simple chiffon cape layered on top of a slip dress.

Khaite

Luola Top in Chalk

I would love to pair this with a simple white miniskirt while on my bachelorette.

Sandy Liang

Thong Mule 60 in Optic White Nappa

Did I buy these before I was even engaged? Maybe…

Alexandra Grecco

Metallic Crochet Cloche

This just screams Gen Z bride to me. I'm obsessed.

Sandy Liang

Ssense Exclusive Bridal Capsule Bonny Jacket

Once a Sandy girl, always a Sandy girl.

J.Crew

Baroque Pearl Necklace

So cute for a welcome party event if you're having a tropical destination wedding.

Chopova Lowena

Ssense Exclusive White Wedding Harpsichord Minidress

If you're reading this, Chopova Lowena press team, I'll take a large!

Gigi Burris

Ingrid Silk-Blend Satin Hat

Bianca Jagger would be proud of this wide-brimmed bridal hat moment.

Jimmy Choo

Skye 70 Satin Mules

A little something blue for your troubles?

The Line by K

Elias Cape Top

I've been eyeing all kinds of bridal capes as of yet, and this option is perfect for a subtler look for your rehearsal dinner or bridal shower.

Simone Rocha

Duck Faux Pearl-Embellished Leather-Trimmed Acrylic Clutch

Okay, I know this might be a little bit too out of the box, but c'mon, look at it!

Marlies Grace

Exclusive Ocean Cotton Mini Dress

Danielle Frankel

Maude Top

Any takers interested in buying me this pretty Danielle Frankel top?

Presley Oldham

Sundown Necklace

Presley Oldham is one of my favorite jewelry brands, so it's no surprise the label's iridescent pearls ended up on my wedding wish list.

Francesca Miranda

Mattina Cotton Dress

I love how light and airy this ruffled dress from Francesca Miranda looks. It's the perfect piece to slip on for a day-after brunch surrounded by your closest friends and family.

Mirror Palais

Handkerchief Hem Babydoll Dress

Anthropologie

Shona Joy Nora Asymmetric Lace-Up Detail Maxi Dress

Not your average long-sleeve slip!

Mirror Palais

Boatneck Eyelet Top

This bateau top is simply divine.

Self-Portrait

Polka Dot Satin Mini Dress

Although polka dots don't exactly scream bridal, this elegant minidress is a trendy, white-ish look to wear to one of the dozens of wedding occasions I'll have coming up this year.

Balenciaga

L40 Knife Bow Mule Heel

The little bow makes this pair of mules feel extra special.

Alessandra Rich

Feather Headband

After spotting this Alessandra Rich headband on our editor in chief, Kat Collings, during her wedding, I knew I had to have it.

Wiederhoeft

Salon Jacket With Carnation Embroidery

Wiederhoeft is a label practically made for the cool, anti-traditional bride, so it's no surprise to see several of the label's designs end high up on my wish list.

Wiederhoeft

Mini Dress With Paillettes and Lace

Talk about a dream second look.

Frame

The Silk Organza Skirt in Alabaster

This trendy sheer layered skirt will live in your closet for years after getting married—it's so chic to wear with a simple white tee and black leather thong sandals.

Galia Lahav

Anastacia Gloves

After seeing sheer opera gloves trending all over the runways during the last few seasons, I'm inclined to believe bridal versions of the same style are definitely here to stay.

Danielle Frankel

Babs Dress

I might ask to be buried in this stunning anti-bridal Danielle Frankel gown.

If you're going for something a bit more sculptural, this set is perfect.

Kyha Studios

Oswald Dress

Khya Studios

The Laura Bruni Hat

This hat screams courthouse ceremony. Just wear it with your favorite white minidress and a pair of statement pumps.

Lookie Atelier

White Sandals with White Satin Rose

I've had these shoes in my closet for years, and I can't wait to wear them to all of my events.

House of Dagmar

Ruffled Stretch-Crepe Strapless Top

Staud

Exclusive Phare Stretch-Silk Dress

Okay, this dress might be a bit more basic, but this silky off-the-shoulder silhouette is always such a crowd-pleaser.

Scarlett Gasque

The Promise Dress

Such a pretty nightgown to get ready in the morning of your wedding.

Hunza G

Square Neck Seersucker Swimsuit

Honestly, if I were having a low-key beach wedding, I'd wear this shirred Hunza G suit with a low-rise pair of white linen pants so I could hop in the ocean after.